JBtwoseven

Girls' rules for survival (written by a dude) 1) Men are problem solvers by nature. If you come to a guy with a problem he will assume you want him to solve it, not empathize with you about it. And he won't understand if you get mad at him for trying to solve it instead of empathizing with you about it. Also, don't come to us with problems that you know have no solution. The only response you'll get is "yeah, that sucks, but what do you expect me to do about it?" Again, guys prefer to solve problems, not empathize about them. If you want empathy, talk to your girlfriends. 2) Know your husband/boyfriend's skill set. If he isn't mechanically